The Oscar-winning actress Reveals Why She Declined an On-Set Intimacy Professional on New Film Die My Love
The acclaimed actress has become part of the growing list of performers who express doubts about the essential need of intimacy coordinators, revealing she chose not to use their services while filming her latest project Die My Love.
Examining the Purpose of On-Set Intimacy Professionals
Intimacy coordinators were introduced following the #MeToo movement to guarantee the safety and ease of actors during sequences involving partial undress and sexual content. Yet, several well-known actors including Jennifer Aniston and Sean Bean have voiced concerns about their involvement, with some suggesting they disrupt artistic process.
Jennifer's Personal Experience
In conversation on the popular culture podcast, while promoting her new film where she plays a woman descending into mental health challenges, Lawrence stated: "We chose not to use such a professional, or perhaps we had the option but didn't make use of their services... I felt entirely secure with Robert."
She continued: "Rob is completely professional and very committed to his partner. What we discussed mostly focused on family life and relationships. There was absolutely no awkward tension or doubts about personal boundaries."
"Had there been even a hint of unease, I definitely would have requested an intimacy coordinator. Many male actors take offense if you don't reciprocate their attention, and subsequently the negative treatment starts. Rob was completely different."
Industry Recognition and Ongoing Debate
Earlier this week, industry platform IMDb formally acknowledged intimacy coordinators as a distinct credit, alongside multiple additional professional roles including choreography, craft services, and puppetry. Before this, they were categorized as "additional crew" rather than having their specific credit.
Notwithstanding this validation, these professionals continue to face public discussion suggesting they might not be industry essential, with high-profile actors declining their participation. Lawrence's perspective echoes that of Jennifer Aniston, who previously revealed she refused intimacy coordination while working with Jon Hamm on The Morning Show.
Aniston's Experience
"Jon was extremely respectful – I mean every move, every cut, 'You comfortable?'" she recalled. "It was also very choreographed. That's the benefit of working with skilled editors, suitable lighting. So, you don't prepare."
She added, "They offered, 'Having someone check if you're comfortable,' and I responded, 'Honestly, this is sufficiently uncomfortable!' We're experienced professionals – we can handle this. And we had Mimi present."
Other Examples and Professional Response
Despite featuring numerous scenes of intimate moments and regular undress, Anora – Sean Baker's acclaimed project about a sex worker and a wealthy heir – filmed without an on-set professional.
Mikey Madison stated she and fellow actor her screen partner "concluded it would be best to keep it small."
"My character is a professional in adult entertainment, and I had researched the director's work and understood his commitment to authenticity. I was professionally ready for it. As an actress, I treated it as professional work."
Her comments provoked significant backlash from intimacy coordinators, similar to the reaction to Gwyneth Paltrow's recent comments, who earlier this year shared that working on her new movie Marty Supreme represented her first encounter with the relatively new profession, which she "was unaware of previously."
Paltrow's Perspective
When asked about personal ease with a particular action alongside fellow actor her younger counterpart, Paltrow responded: "I belong to the era where you get naked, you assume position, the camera's on."
Paltrow added that she and Chalamet then informed the professional: "We believe we're good. You can step back.' I don't know how it is for newer performers, but... if someone is instructing, '{OK, then he's going to place his hand here,' I would feel, as an artist, very stifled by that."
Professional Reaction
Following these comments, industry executive Caroline Hollick labeled them "concerning" and pointed out that the majority of those opposing intimacy coordinators have established careers to command their own power and protection on production locations.
"Occasionally an actor shares opinions about whether they appreciate on-set professionals or not," commented the executive. "Gwyneth Paltrow stated she grew up in a time when industry professionals 'took our kit off and got on with it'. As a powerful woman in Hollywood working with a actor considerably junior than her, while I'm sure Chalamet is chill, I considered it quite an irresponsible remark."
Actor's Viewpoint
The veteran actor, in contrast, expressed that he feels the main obligation during intimate sequences falls on the male actor, instead of a external professional.
"Based on my career, you assume duty as the man to make certain the woman is at ease, you discuss it thoroughly," he said. "You state, '{OK, I'm going to make contact there if that's acceptable'. It's extremely careful but appears like it's happening naturally, which is hopefully what convincing acting looks like."